It's like a thing for some married men to play young girls all in the name of experiencing something new, something different from what their wife offers.
Forget about sugar daddies, these men are just few years older then these girls and it breaks my heart to hear some girls cry their hearts out because they got tangled and fell in love. Most times the word gets to the street and people tag them as "home wreckers" even when they don't try to hear their own side of the story. If they will just listen and get to know that some men deceive these young girls to think that they are down for them.
They go to the extent of taking their wedding band off for no genuine reason especially when they are around a young lady.
And a lady young at heart will fall for his charms and that will lead to progress for the man, she wants a relationship, he wants to have a good time (probably because he's tired of his wife or there's trouble in Paradise).
Sooner or later she will get to know about his marital status.
What do you think will happen to her? She will be devastated, heartbroken. She was tricked and she fell for it.
She might decide to leave because she can't stand it or she might decide to stay.
Now the question is why would she want to stay with someone that lied to her.
1) she's enjoying him
Why would she enjoy someone else's man?
We all know that most girls end up with guys that aren't mature. They just don't know what we want from them, they have created a mentality about all females and they just treat them the same way irrespective of who is who. Meanwhile these men have decided to commit themselves to their wife and they treat her better probably because their wife have shaped them into a better person. Now a better person treating a young girl the way she wants, she'll not want to loose him. He is just what she wants.
2) she feels different with him
Being with someone you have always wanted is refreshing. It feels like you are in a different phase, he's treating you right so you'll feel different. In some cases, the girl feels more pretty, she feels womanly and more mature. It's like a wave finding it's way into her life and doing things that she likes.
3) she's getting what she wants
He loves her or not
He likes her or not
He'll definitely take care of her because he's getting what he wants. He'll always meet her expectations and probably go beyond.
4) most girls go for what's not good for them
You know he's married, you know he has a kid, you know that one day his wife will find out, you know he will hurt you but you still stay with him for a reason you alone understand. You know he's bad for you but you just make excuses in your head and try to defend him every time your mind disagrees with your decision.
It's like a trait in most female especially when it comes to the opposite sex, we always want to go for that bad guy, that fuck boy even when we know that he's no good for us.
If you ever find yourself in this situation, the best thing to do is to leave him. Whatever is for you will come to you, you'll always find love.
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